Did you ever wonder what the world would be like if we didn't practice good manners?  

 

I always ask my students this question on the first day of class.  They are mortified when I present to them a few examples. Shopping at the mall, driving in traffic, and eating out at a restaurant to name a few. 

Let's just say it wouldn't be a world in which I would like to live in.  Growing up our parent's reminded us about the magic words, how to act at our friend's house and what was expected of us.  Now as we become adults we pass these manners onto our children because we know the importance of what manners do for us.

As adults, most of us still care about having a social life. Ignoring proper etiquette guidelines can leave us off the guest list and socially isolated.

In the professional world there are certain expectations of how a business person is supposed to act. If you follow the rules, you're perceived as confident and someone who knows what you're talking about. However, if you don't, you may be thought of as self-centered or rude.

Practicing proper etiquette is essential in all aspects of life if you want others to respect you. 

Here are some of the many advantages of having good manners:

 

1. Being nice at home sets the stage for better behavior.  If a parent
    practices good manners at home, so will their children.

2.  Professional manners get positive attention.  Following the etiquette rules
     at work will help you earn respect and possibly even contribute to 
     promotions and raises. 

3.  Being kind to customers increases sales.  Showing customer's good
     manners by listening and speaking politely, you are likely to earn their
     future business.   

4.  Being polite to your friends will keep them calling.  Everyone likes to be
     around someone who has good manners. 

5.  Romantic relationships are stronger when couples respect each other. 

6.  Treating other people with respect makes them want to be nice back to
     you.  Hold the door for someone or give them a smile.  It might just make  
     their day! 

7.  Driving with good manners can help prevent accidents.  Everyone 
     makes mistakes.  Keep your temper in check. 

8.  Others will listen if you give them a chance to speak.  Show respect by
     listening to what others have to say.   

9.  Good social etiquette will keep your name on the guest list.   

10. Knowing and using proper etiquette regularly can help with
 

      confidence. If you are in the habit of using good manners all the time, you
      won't have to worry about whether or not you're doing or saying the right
      thing. It will come natural to you, and others will respect you more for it.

"Good manners are just a way of showing other people that we have respect for them." 

~Bill Kelly

Upcoming Etiquette Classes

September 14 - Dining Etiquette for Adults "Dining Night Out"

October 7 - 26 Ages 9-12

November 4 Teen Workshop Ages 13 - 18

For more information please visit out website www.itsallaboutetiquette.com 

or call 480 510-6346 

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Tips to boost your child's confidence for the new school year!

BACK-TO-SCHOOL MANNERS    Where did the summer go?  Many of our children will be starting school soon.  Because they spend over a third of their day at school, good manners and social skills are of great importance.  Talking to your child about back-to-school manners will give your child the confidence they will need.  As various social situations arise they will know how to handle themselves.  This gives them the opportunity to focus on learning new things and socializing with new friends. Here are a few back to school manners that will help your child transition more easily through the new school year:  Obey the classroom rules.  Parents should ask the new teacher for these rules. Raise your hand and don't speak out. Be a good listener and don't interrupt. Help clean up. Take turns & share. Help others in need. Say "Please," "Thank You," and "You're Welcome." Respect your friends, teachers and school rules. At lunch, don't share your drinks, do chew with your mouth closed, sit in your seat while eating, clean up and throw away your trash. Don't grab or throw food. Practice the Golden Rule "Treat others as you would like to be treated." Be kind to others. Don't gossip or say mean things. Be the friend that you would like to have. Practice good hygiene (bath every day, brush your teeth, comb your hair, wear clean clothes, and keep your nails clean). Be on time. Teachers and adults should be called by called Miss, Mrs., Ms., or Mr. with their last names. If you want your children to have good manners, make sure you set a good example. After they hear you saying, "Please," "Thank you," and "You're welcome," they are likely to follow. Praise them for being mindful of their manners to encourage them to continue. Have a wonderful school year!  Like us on Facebook

Brush up on manners before the holidays.                                                       Upcoming Classes Enrolling Now!   August 12th                  Everyday Etiquette for Adults August 26th                  Essential Etiquette for Teens 13 - 18 September 9 - 30th       E is for Etiquette 6 - 8 October 7 - 28th           Etiquette for Young Ladies and Young Men 9 - 12           November 4th              Essential Etiquette for Teens 13 - 18 November 18th            Everyday Etiquette for Adults   Watch us on Arizona Midday Channel 12 -  July 31st at 1 p.m.  Destry and I will be discussing more about Back to School Manners!

Traveling with the kids this summer?

 

As parents you know how hard it can be flying with children.  Putting a child in a cramped space for hours with a plane filled with people can be a daunting task.

The following tips you may find helpful. 

• Before you leave on your trip sit down and explain airport procedure.  Let them know they will have to go through security and are expected to take their shoes, belts and jackets off and place them in a bin on the conveyor belt.

• When booking your flight think about the time of travel. The best time to travel is at night when kids are exhausted and want to sleep.

• Airports can be very crowded and busy.  It is a good idea to teach your child to walk on the right side of the walkway and go with the flow of traffic.        

• When boarding the plane and walking down the aisle remind your child to carry their items low and in front of them so they won't hit anyone going down the isle.

• Window seats are the ticket as it will keep your child entertained for a little while and make sure they have fastened their seat belt.

• Explain the importance of respecting others on the plane by not raising their voice, kicking the seat or pulling on the back of seat of the person in front of them when they get up.

• Bring plenty of snacks and gum.  Gum will help clear their ears as the plane climbs in altitude.  Feeding a bottle to an infant works well too.

• Pack in your child's backpack, a new toy, a couple of games, books, some crayons and paper, iphone with ear buds, and laptop. The more things they have to occupy their time, the least likely they will to act up.

•  When the plane lands the disembark process is important to know. Passengers in front of  you go first to retrieve their carry on items and line up to walk down the aisle. 

  

Look for us on Arizona Midday NBC channel 12 on June 23rd!  

Destry and I will be talking about wedding etiquette.

Please visit our website www.itsallaboutetiquette.com to enroll for our upcoming kids Summer Etiquette Camp!
  

   

 

Would you like your child to get a few helpful and fun-filled lessons in manners and proper etiquette this summer? As much as you try teaching manners and proper etiquette at home, sometimes children just need to learn these important lessons from another adult. Certified etiquette instructor, SueAnn Brown, owner of It’s All About Etiquette, will offer four-day summer etiquette camps running Tuesday to Friday, 10 a.m. to noon. Children learn proper dining skills, how to set a table, proper introductions, how to write thank-you notes, proper eye contact, shaking hands, phone etiquette, and many more valuable life lessons. Your child will be amazed at how much fun learning about manners and proper etiquette can be. Cost is $225 per child. Sibling discounts are available. The cost of the camp includes a dining tutorial, class supplies, healthy snacks, and an etiquette reference book. Advanced registration is required. Space is limited. 

For more information or to register your child, call (480) 510-6346 o visit www.itsallaboutetiquette.com

 

 

How are your teen's social skills?

Look Familiar?  

    

With texting soaring are social skills dropping? YES...Two-thirds of the teens surveyed in the Pew research study reported that they are more apt to text with their cell phones than use them for spoken conversation.

With college and job interviews in the near future how are your teen's social skills? 

Our half-day workshop "Essential Etiquette for Teens" will help prepare your teen for the many new social and business situations they will face as young adults and will provide them with the self-confidence, enthusiasm, and motivation that is essential as they move into the next phase of their lives.

The following topics will be covered:

Proper Introductions - Handshakes And Eye Contact - Body Language - The Art Of Small Talk - How To Speak With The Right Tone With Clarity - Leadership Qualities - How To Make A Positive First Impression

Be The Perfect Guest - Invitations And Thank-You Notes - Techno-Etiquette And Social Networking - Dating Etiquette - Common Courtesies In Public Places

Table Skills and Dining Manners - Informal/Formal Place Setting - American/Continental Dining - Proper Use Of Dining Utensils - Eating Various Foods - Seating A Lady At The Table - Tipping Guidelines

Interviewing Tips For College & Job Interviews - Dressing The Part - Be A Good Listener - Interview Follow Up Calls And Thank-You Notes - Grooming & Skin Care - Graduation Celebration

The workshop is interactive, entertaining and educational!

Date: March 18th  

Time: 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. (lunch in provided) 

Fee:   $200.00 per student

Location:  Scottsdale

Please visit our website to register or call 480 510-6346

www.itsallaboutetiquette.com 

 

Look for us on Arizona Midday February 27th!  Destry and I will be discussing how to eat difficult foods.  Fork or Fingers?