Practice good manners when you Trick-Or-Treat!  What do your children need to know before they  trick-or-treat To plan for this festive day, we're establishing some general ground rules for those on the "receiving" end.  Stay on the walk-way to the front door. You don't want to mow down your neighbors prize mums. Ring the door bell twice, if no response go to another home. Homes that are dark, should not be approached.  They are either not at home or do not wish to participate in Halloween. Carry a flash light at all times so cars can see you and you can see where you're walking.  And parents can add reflective tape to costumes and candy containers. Be courteous when someone answers the door, say "Trick-or-Treat" nicely. Be sure to say, "Thank you" after receiving your treat. Never go into someone's home. Only eat candy that is wrapped. Time to start Halloween is when it becomes dark outside and not past 9:00 p.m. Don't rifle through the candy to find your favorite treat. Take one treat unless told otherwise.                                HAPPY HALLOWEEN!   Watch us on Arizona Midday Monday, October 23rd at 1 p.m. channel 12. Destry and I will be talking about Halloween Etiquette & Safety Reminders! Accepting Enrollment Now! Essential Etiquette for Teens Half Day Workshop November 4th Ages 13-18 1:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. ****** Classes will be held in Scottsdale   LOOK at our class schedules for the New Year! itsallaboutetiquette.com

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 Eight Common Etiquette Mistakes 

&

How to Avoid Them

Everyone makes mistakes.  When we make a mistake, it is necessary to apologize and move on.  Most importantly, learn from your mistakes and try not to keep repeating the same ones over.  

Following certain rules of etiquette is essential in both professional and social situations, so it's a good idea to learn them. It can mean the difference between getting ahead in business and keeping or losing friends.

 
     

1. Forgetting those whom you are with.

Always give the person you are physically with your attention. If your cell phone rings, or you receive a text that needs immediate response, politely excuse yourself and keep all electronic contact brief. Then when you return to the person, apologize and refrain from making a habit of chatting on the phone or texting when you're with someone. 

2.  Being Impolite to anyone.

Politeness extends to everyone you come in contact with, from the grocery store clerk, the person on the street and even your boss. Not being nice to people shows a lack of character.  Just remember the Golden Rule, "Treat other as you would wish to be treated."

3.  Being Late.

When people are late they are showing disrespect to others. When you agree to show up at a certain time, be there on time.  If you are running late, call and let the other person know your circumstances and your estimated time of arrival.

4.  Failing to R.S.V.P.

When you are invited to an event let the host know whether or not you will be attending, as soon as possible.  Failing to R.S.V.P. keeps the host from knowing the number of guests they will have to plan for and can be costly.  If you have given your regrets and find you can attend, call the host and ask if it isn't too late.  Never change plans if something more interesting comes along. That host may never invite you again if he/she finds out.

5.  It's All About Me!

If you have a habit of making the conversation all about you, you may find people avoiding you.  When speaking with people focus more on their interests and what they think about on certain topics.  They will in-turn ask you questions and the conversation is more enjoyable for both parties.

6.  Poor Table Manners.

If you are dining with others, brush up on your table manners.  Learn which utensil to use while dining, don't talk with your mouth full. If someone asks you a question right after you take a bite, most likely will understand and be willing to wait until you chew and swallow.  Never leave the table when people are still eating.  Wait until everyone has finished his or her meal.

7.  Failing to introduce others.

Did you know it is your responsibility to introduce people who don't know each other?  Start by simply saying, "I would like to introduce you to my co-worker Jane" it's that easy. If you forgot the person's name politely say something like, "I'm sorry. I know we've met, but I can't recall your name." Then use the person's name during the introduction and afterward in conversation.

8.  Lack of Gratitude. 

When someone gives you a gift or performs an act of kindness always say, "Thank you" and it is important send a thank you note.

 

 

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"Etiquette makes life more pleasant for everyone."

 

Did you ever wonder what the world would be like if we didn't practice good manners?  

 

I always ask my students this question on the first day of class.  They are mortified when I present to them a few examples. Shopping at the mall, driving in traffic, and eating out at a restaurant to name a few. 

Let's just say it wouldn't be a world in which I would like to live in.  Growing up our parent's reminded us about the magic words, how to act at our friend's house and what was expected of us.  Now as we become adults we pass these manners onto our children because we know the importance of what manners do for us.

As adults, most of us still care about having a social life. Ignoring proper etiquette guidelines can leave us off the guest list and socially isolated.

In the professional world there are certain expectations of how a business person is supposed to act. If you follow the rules, you're perceived as confident and someone who knows what you're talking about. However, if you don't, you may be thought of as self-centered or rude.

Practicing proper etiquette is essential in all aspects of life if you want others to respect you. 

Here are some of the many advantages of having good manners:

 

1. Being nice at home sets the stage for better behavior.  If a parent
    practices good manners at home, so will their children.

2.  Professional manners get positive attention.  Following the etiquette rules
     at work will help you earn respect and possibly even contribute to 
     promotions and raises. 

3.  Being kind to customers increases sales.  Showing customer's good
     manners by listening and speaking politely, you are likely to earn their
     future business.   

4.  Being polite to your friends will keep them calling.  Everyone likes to be
     around someone who has good manners. 

5.  Romantic relationships are stronger when couples respect each other. 

6.  Treating other people with respect makes them want to be nice back to
     you.  Hold the door for someone or give them a smile.  It might just make  
     their day! 

7.  Driving with good manners can help prevent accidents.  Everyone 
     makes mistakes.  Keep your temper in check. 

8.  Others will listen if you give them a chance to speak.  Show respect by
     listening to what others have to say.   

9.  Good social etiquette will keep your name on the guest list.   

10. Knowing and using proper etiquette regularly can help with
 

      confidence. If you are in the habit of using good manners all the time, you
      won't have to worry about whether or not you're doing or saying the right
      thing. It will come natural to you, and others will respect you more for it.

"Good manners are just a way of showing other people that we have respect for them." 

~Bill Kelly

Upcoming Etiquette Classes

September 14 - Dining Etiquette for Adults "Dining Night Out"

October 7 - 26 Ages 9-12

November 4 Teen Workshop Ages 13 - 18

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Tips to boost your child's confidence for the new school year!

BACK-TO-SCHOOL MANNERS    Where did the summer go?  Many of our children will be starting school soon.  Because they spend over a third of their day at school, good manners and social skills are of great importance.  Talking to your child about back-to-school manners will give your child the confidence they will need.  As various social situations arise they will know how to handle themselves.  This gives them the opportunity to focus on learning new things and socializing with new friends. Here are a few back to school manners that will help your child transition more easily through the new school year:  Obey the classroom rules.  Parents should ask the new teacher for these rules. Raise your hand and don't speak out. Be a good listener and don't interrupt. Help clean up. Take turns & share. Help others in need. Say "Please," "Thank You," and "You're Welcome." Respect your friends, teachers and school rules. At lunch, don't share your drinks, do chew with your mouth closed, sit in your seat while eating, clean up and throw away your trash. Don't grab or throw food. Practice the Golden Rule "Treat others as you would like to be treated." Be kind to others. Don't gossip or say mean things. Be the friend that you would like to have. Practice good hygiene (bath every day, brush your teeth, comb your hair, wear clean clothes, and keep your nails clean). Be on time. Teachers and adults should be called by called Miss, Mrs., Ms., or Mr. with their last names. If you want your children to have good manners, make sure you set a good example. After they hear you saying, "Please," "Thank you," and "You're welcome," they are likely to follow. Praise them for being mindful of their manners to encourage them to continue. Have a wonderful school year!  Like us on Facebook

Brush up on manners before the holidays.                                                       Upcoming Classes Enrolling Now!   August 12th                  Everyday Etiquette for Adults August 26th                  Essential Etiquette for Teens 13 - 18 September 9 - 30th       E is for Etiquette 6 - 8 October 7 - 28th           Etiquette for Young Ladies and Young Men 9 - 12           November 4th              Essential Etiquette for Teens 13 - 18 November 18th            Everyday Etiquette for Adults   Watch us on Arizona Midday Channel 12 -  July 31st at 1 p.m.  Destry and I will be discussing more about Back to School Manners!

Traveling with the kids this summer?

 

As parents you know how hard it can be flying with children.  Putting a child in a cramped space for hours with a plane filled with people can be a daunting task.

The following tips you may find helpful. 

• Before you leave on your trip sit down and explain airport procedure.  Let them know they will have to go through security and are expected to take their shoes, belts and jackets off and place them in a bin on the conveyor belt.

• When booking your flight think about the time of travel. The best time to travel is at night when kids are exhausted and want to sleep.

• Airports can be very crowded and busy.  It is a good idea to teach your child to walk on the right side of the walkway and go with the flow of traffic.        

• When boarding the plane and walking down the aisle remind your child to carry their items low and in front of them so they won't hit anyone going down the isle.

• Window seats are the ticket as it will keep your child entertained for a little while and make sure they have fastened their seat belt.

• Explain the importance of respecting others on the plane by not raising their voice, kicking the seat or pulling on the back of seat of the person in front of them when they get up.

• Bring plenty of snacks and gum.  Gum will help clear their ears as the plane climbs in altitude.  Feeding a bottle to an infant works well too.

• Pack in your child's backpack, a new toy, a couple of games, books, some crayons and paper, iphone with ear buds, and laptop. The more things they have to occupy their time, the least likely they will to act up.

•  When the plane lands the disembark process is important to know. Passengers in front of  you go first to retrieve their carry on items and line up to walk down the aisle. 

  

Look for us on Arizona Midday NBC channel 12 on June 23rd!  

Destry and I will be talking about wedding etiquette.

Please visit our website www.itsallaboutetiquette.com to enroll for our upcoming kids Summer Etiquette Camp!
  

   

 

Would you like your child to get a few helpful and fun-filled lessons in manners and proper etiquette this summer? As much as you try teaching manners and proper etiquette at home, sometimes children just need to learn these important lessons from another adult. Certified etiquette instructor, SueAnn Brown, owner of It’s All About Etiquette, will offer four-day summer etiquette camps running Tuesday to Friday, 10 a.m. to noon. Children learn proper dining skills, how to set a table, proper introductions, how to write thank-you notes, proper eye contact, shaking hands, phone etiquette, and many more valuable life lessons. Your child will be amazed at how much fun learning about manners and proper etiquette can be. Cost is $225 per child. Sibling discounts are available. The cost of the camp includes a dining tutorial, class supplies, healthy snacks, and an etiquette reference book. Advanced registration is required. Space is limited. 

For more information or to register your child, call (480) 510-6346 o visit www.itsallaboutetiquette.com

 

 

How are your teen's social skills?

Look Familiar?  

    

With texting soaring are social skills dropping? YES...Two-thirds of the teens surveyed in the Pew research study reported that they are more apt to text with their cell phones than use them for spoken conversation.

With college and job interviews in the near future how are your teen's social skills? 

Our half-day workshop "Essential Etiquette for Teens" will help prepare your teen for the many new social and business situations they will face as young adults and will provide them with the self-confidence, enthusiasm, and motivation that is essential as they move into the next phase of their lives.

The following topics will be covered:

Proper Introductions - Handshakes And Eye Contact - Body Language - The Art Of Small Talk - How To Speak With The Right Tone With Clarity - Leadership Qualities - How To Make A Positive First Impression

Be The Perfect Guest - Invitations And Thank-You Notes - Techno-Etiquette And Social Networking - Dating Etiquette - Common Courtesies In Public Places

Table Skills and Dining Manners - Informal/Formal Place Setting - American/Continental Dining - Proper Use Of Dining Utensils - Eating Various Foods - Seating A Lady At The Table - Tipping Guidelines

Interviewing Tips For College & Job Interviews - Dressing The Part - Be A Good Listener - Interview Follow Up Calls And Thank-You Notes - Grooming & Skin Care - Graduation Celebration

The workshop is interactive, entertaining and educational!

Date: March 18th  

Time: 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. (lunch in provided) 

Fee:   $200.00 per student

Location:  Scottsdale

Please visit our website to register or call 480 510-6346

www.itsallaboutetiquette.com 

 

Look for us on Arizona Midday February 27th!  Destry and I will be discussing how to eat difficult foods.  Fork or Fingers? 

It’s Never Too Early to Start Learning Manners and Proper Etiquette

A good age to start teaching manners to your child is around the age of two years.  At this age children start understanding that other people have the same feeling just like them.  It becomes easier to teach your child that their behavior affects others.  Example:  Peter receives a birthday present from Uncle Joe, “Peter, what do you say when you receive a gift?  “Thank you.”  By gentle prompting by parents children can start learning to say please, thank you and you’re welcome. 

Teaching your two year to apologize will need a little more prompting on the parent’s part.  At this age your child understands empathy but probably won’t apologize on his own.  When your child hits another child the parent should explain that, "We don't hit; hitting hurts." Then, prompt him to apologize: "When we hurt someone, we say, 'I'm sorry.'"

The same would be true for not sharing toys. At this age children do not like to share.  Start off by setting up a play date with another child and have your child offer toys to his playmate.  This also will need some parent prompting.  The prompting would be, “When we don’t share our toys it makes Sally sad.”

At this age you can also start teaching your child where their napkin belongs.  You can start working with your child that food belongs on the plate and not on the floor.  Start out with a plastic plate and encourage him to use his utensils.  Discourage him from throwing food on the floor by saying, “Food stays on your plate and does not belong on the floor.”

Something else starts to happen at this age, nose picking and potty training.  This can be rather embarrassing for the parent.  The best way to deal with nose picking is to simply give your child a tissue.  As for the potty talk your child will probably have all kinds of words to utter for this one.  You will have to deal with as they will need to use these words to communicate what they have to do.  But if they are saying these words to get a reaction out of you, don’t show them any emotion.  Take it as a matter of fact.

I believe the best way to raise your child is with the old golden rule, “Do unto others as they would do unto you.”  Treating other people like they would want to be treated is something they can relate too.

Learning good manners and proper etiquette is an ongoing life long experience.  As your child grows so do their manners.  Consistency is a must when teaching your children etiquette as well as parents being the example.  Good manners start at home.

It is important to start teaching your child manners early so manners become a way of life and something a child does automatically.

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