Eight Common Etiquette Mistakes
&
How to Avoid Them
Everyone makes mistakes. When we make a mistake, it is necessary to apologize and move on. Most importantly, learn from your mistakes and try not to keep repeating the same ones over.
Following certain rules of etiquette is essential in both professional and social situations, so it's a good idea to learn them. It can mean the difference between getting ahead in business and keeping or losing friends.
1. Forgetting those whom you are with.
Always give the person you are physically with your attention. If your cell phone rings, or you receive a text that needs immediate response, politely excuse yourself and keep all electronic contact brief. Then when you return to the person, apologize and refrain from making a habit of chatting on the phone or texting when you're with someone.
2. Being Impolite to anyone.
Politeness extends to everyone you come in contact with, from the grocery store clerk, the person on the street and even your boss. Not being nice to people shows a lack of character. Just remember the Golden Rule, "Treat other as you would wish to be treated."
3. Being Late.
When people are late they are showing disrespect to others. When you agree to show up at a certain time, be there on time. If you are running late, call and let the other person know your circumstances and your estimated time of arrival.
4. Failing to R.S.V.P.
When you are invited to an event let the host know whether or not you will be attending, as soon as possible. Failing to R.S.V.P. keeps the host from knowing the number of guests they will have to plan for and can be costly. If you have given your regrets and find you can attend, call the host and ask if it isn't too late. Never change plans if something more interesting comes along. That host may never invite you again if he/she finds out.
5. It's All About Me!
If you have a habit of making the conversation all about you, you may find people avoiding you. When speaking with people focus more on their interests and what they think about on certain topics. They will in-turn ask you questions and the conversation is more enjoyable for both parties.
6. Poor Table Manners.
If you are dining with others, brush up on your table manners. Learn which utensil to use while dining, don't talk with your mouth full. If someone asks you a question right after you take a bite, most likely will understand and be willing to wait until you chew and swallow. Never leave the table when people are still eating. Wait until everyone has finished his or her meal.
7. Failing to introduce others.
Did you know it is your responsibility to introduce people who don't know each other? Start by simply saying, "I would like to introduce you to my co-worker Jane" it's that easy. If you forgot the person's name politely say something like, "I'm sorry. I know we've met, but I can't recall your name." Then use the person's name during the introduction and afterward in conversation.
8. Lack of Gratitude.
When someone gives you a gift or performs an act of kindness always say, "Thank you" and it is important send a thank you note.
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